The Power of Our Voices

by Elena on March 8, 2012 in blogging about blogging,Career Transition

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Today is International Women’s Day.  International Women’s Day is a a chance to honor women for their accomplishments I am usually pretty vocal about not celebrating these one day holidays, preferring to celebrate and respect topics every day of the year, but this year, I am embracing the day,  also known in Italy as Festa Della Donna (the holiday of the woman).  In Italy, men present a bouquet or sprig of mimosa flowers to women on this day as a sign of respect. Here, today, I am using this day as my launch pad, a celebration of past accomplishments and a focus on the future.

You see, the power of a day like this is that we are reminded that we have a voice. And that our voice matters.  And this year, for the first time, I feel like I have really started to use my voice, for good.  From my Bloggers4Haiti trip where I used my voice to share the beauty of Haiti, to my new role with the American Cancer Society as a member of their Blogger Advisory Council, to the thrilling news that I will be a member of the DC Listen To Your Mother cast, I feel like I have finally found ways to share my voice.

This is not a “look at me and all the amazing things I have done” post.  This is about the fact that we each have a voice, and it is our responsibility to use it- wisely and with compassion.

So it is with excitement (and a small does of trepidation) that I share the news that makes this day and this idea of sharing our voices even more special. (insert drum roll)

As of the end of this June…..I will be self employed. As in a work at home mom. As in, a full time blogger, writer, freelancer doing who knows what.  As in…I will not be returning to the classroom next September.

Gulp.

I have no illusions. I know that making a “go” of this new life will not be easy. I know that there are many voices out there, each wanting to be heard.  But the more I thought about my life, my career, my role as a mom, I knew that this was the time.

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A time where I can focus on advocacy, for social good and for education.  A time where I can flex my wings and put myself out there, WAY past my comfort zone, to see what can happen as a writer and freelancer.  A time where I can use my expertise as an educational leader in a new way in the social media space.  A time that I can use to volunteer in Principessa’s classroom and join her for lunch every so often.  A time to make the most of this life, in the here and in the now.

The truth is that I have been inspired this year. By women who use their voice in ways that I never thought possible. Women that I consider to be friends and mentors. Women who visualize what their dream looks like, and work tirelessly to make that dream a reality.

It is going to be a long journey. One that I expect will have highs and lows.  I will go out on a limb to try new things. I will  make mistakes.  But I will try.  I will learn from the mavens that have inspired me, and will stay true to my belief that I am a member of a larger community that succeeds because of collaboration and cooperation instead of competition.

I will go to conferences with a new purpose, to make connections and to deepen relationships. I will be forced to think creatively and will likely be met with more closed doors than open ones.   I will make decisions with a different perspective, keeping in mind the big picture.  I will work to find a balance to make a living and still enjoy what I am doing.

This will be MY time. My time to create a space for the voice that I have been cultivating. My time to find ways to inspire, empower, and foster self sufficiency in others not from my perch as a teacher, but as a voice that believes in the collective power that comes from the voices of many.

So….that is how I plan to use my voice for good.  What about you? How will you use YOUR voice?

Ciao Mom

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Lattejunkie March 8, 2012 at 1:48 am

That’s a huge step. A HUGE step. I’m not really telling you that though, it’s more to tell myself that although it’s huge, I could also do it.

I’m trying to go from SAHM to W(riting)AHM and getting some cash for it… But I don’t know where to start. I’m guessing though that realising that that is what I want is a great first step.

Best of everything for the grand adventure ahead.

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Elena March 9, 2012 at 10:28 pm

It is definitely going to be long process but I am excited.

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Leticia- Tech Savvy Mama March 8, 2012 at 11:17 am

I am so excited about your new journey and your constant desire to use your voice for good. Congratulations on being part of DC Listen to Your Mother and all the other ways you are stepping out of your comfort zone. While it may be scary at times and you may question your decision, I know you will be flexing your wings and allow them to take you wherever you want to go! xo

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Elena March 9, 2012 at 10:31 pm

Oh my friend, I am so thankful for your support and encouragement (and mentoring).

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Robbie March 8, 2012 at 12:13 pm

YEah for using your voice and for stepping out of your comfort zone and taking an enormous step!

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Kristen March 8, 2012 at 2:29 pm

Welcome to the club. I decided the gig was up in January and MAN has it been a huge change. I’m so excited for you. Just today – when I read your e-mail, I thought: “She still teaches? How in the world does she still teach?!?” I guess I just assumed you were already a full time blogger because you have done so much … I don’t know how you had another job. Good luck. You are going to be amazing :)

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Kir March 8, 2012 at 4:59 pm

Happy IWD Elena…you, more than anyone I know is such a FORCE in the world of women for me. I look to you as a mentor and as a friend. I know that this next chapter is going to be amazing and eye opening . It is going to be incredible for you and inspiring for those of us around you. I can’t wait to see what wonderful things life has in store for you. I am jealous..you know!!!! ;)

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Elena March 9, 2012 at 10:32 pm

Um…you my friend, are an inspiration. I am lucky to have so many wise and amazing friends in this space that as such fabulous role models.

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Christina S. March 8, 2012 at 6:54 pm

I’m so proud of you! Best of luck! XOXO

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Elena March 8, 2012 at 9:02 pm

Thank you—it is because of women like you, that are such fantastic role models that I believed this was even worth consideration!

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Elizabeth Flora Ross March 8, 2012 at 7:04 pm

Hooray for you! That’s fantastic!

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Mrs. Jen B March 8, 2012 at 7:18 pm

Wow, Elena! I am so in awe of you right now. This is a huge step but I know you’ll make a success of it because I’ve seen your determination firsthand. You have so much to say and to share with others.

I wish I had the courage to take such a step – I’m sure so many people do.

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Elena March 8, 2012 at 9:01 pm

Thanks Jen! I don’t know about being in awe, but I am thrilled to have the support of Rocket to take this step, and to really–really try.

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Thien-Kim March 8, 2012 at 11:47 pm

YAAY! I’m so happy for you! I knew you’ve been wanting this for a long time. Congrats on taking the first step!

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Amy @ Counting My Kisses March 9, 2012 at 1:25 am

Congrats Elena! What a beautifully heartfelt post. I’m so excited for you & all of the wonderful things you’ll do on this next step of your journey. You are such an inspiration to so many of us~ wishing you the very best! :)

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Maureen | Tatter Scoops March 9, 2012 at 7:11 am

Big congrats on following your passion, my friend. I wish you well in your new exciting endeavor! :D

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By Word of Mouth Musings March 9, 2012 at 8:48 am

I knew this day would come … that self confidence you have been building over the last year has simply found its time to spread its wings and take on all you were meant to do.
Well done … and much love to you xxx

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Elena March 9, 2012 at 10:33 pm

Oh thank you Nichole. Truly. Having the support of friends like you has been such an inspiration.

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Galit Breen March 9, 2012 at 3:27 pm

Bravo, kudos, and all else that shows that I’m right behind you – cheering you on!

Using your voice for good, and trusting yourself to go for it!

Pure fabulous!

xo

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Nichole March 9, 2012 at 7:47 pm

Congratulations, my friend!
I know that you will accomplish wonderful things. For yourself and others.
xoxo

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Jack@TheJackB March 9, 2012 at 7:59 pm

Just wanted to say good luck and that I think it is cool you are doing it.

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Natayiti March 9, 2012 at 8:14 pm

So proud of you! You are amazing!

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Elena March 9, 2012 at 10:46 pm

Oh Nat–thank you. I remember being in the car with you listening to you share your hopes and dreams—your vision and planning is an inspiration. xo

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Audrei M. March 10, 2012 at 11:05 am

Yay, congratulations to all women! I’ve been given greetings by many people in our office. How many people gave a greeting on March 8? I hope there were a bunch of them.

Kudos to all women!

-Audrei

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Daniela Cuthbert March 10, 2012 at 12:11 pm

You are a very strong and inspirational person Elena. Best wishes for your new journey.

We are all very proud of you.

-Daniela

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Beth March 12, 2012 at 1:44 pm

You inspire me. SO MUCH.

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Kelly March 13, 2012 at 9:14 am

Ok…the rock I have been living under has finally been pushed a side a bit so that I can catch up!

WOW!!! This is such exciting news!!! I knew it would not be long before your PASSION gave your gut the kick in the pants to grab your dream and run. I am so incredibly proud of you. This will be an adjustment for all, but you will now have that option of breathing while accomplishing AMAZING things.
I am soooo happy for you my friend. So incredibly happy!

xoxoxoxo

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Barb March 14, 2012 at 8:45 pm

I am a teacher also and while I don’t know about the full time work at home thing for me (Im a single mom) right now, I am also looking for something else, something that will allow me to spread my wings and soar! I know it is time for me to leave my classroom behind. What ages do you teach right now? I will most definitely be following along as you make progress. Best of luck!

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